Just when you think you are alone

Just when you think you are alone out there, shouldering all the pain and sorrows that had just bestow upon you by the universe in testing your patience and perseverance, YOU are not. You are never alone, there are many people out there who share the same feelings as you, or may be worse then you are. I was 'mourning' and my feelings are very low and moody, I saw a friend go online and since we have not chatted for a long time so I buzz her. She was a bit reluctant to share in the beginning but as we chat more, we both started to open up to each other. And hey, we then realize we are NOT alone ! So we comforted each other and encourages each other which I think is unique and amazing; judging from our age differences, our culture differences and our time differences ! She is half a globe away from me almost half my age :) and yet we can relate, I find it so amazing that we can share similarity in our feelings and our thoughts because we are human ! and we are all the same irregardless of age, race or gender.

And every so often when we are in trouble or facing problem we almost instantly and quickly go for plan B. Quick quick move away, what is the fastest way to get out of this situation and move on ! Don't stay .. get on ! move it ! But we always forget to let things sink before we stir it up again. WE have never let our feelings sink in and let it recover before we move on. We hop from one to another almost instantly ! Well I am talking about our feelings, just when we think we are hit we make all sorts of plan to get out as fast as possible, we are wrong. Or even immerse ourself in other things to runaway from it, is also not the best way either. 

We should face it, let is sink, let the feelings sink in and address the pain. Yes, it is painful, agree to it, accept it. Yes, we are in sorrow and mourning, admit it, let the heart mourn ! Do not deny the loss. 

It is when we have gone through these phases that will we have truly feel and live ! Only when we come out of it will we know the sweetness of victory and triumphant over the loss and rise above it !